INTERNET SAFETY for Kids: 20 Steps
Posted by Neena on 02/28/08 in Children of All Ages, Just for Moms, Parenting Tips, Technology
Internet safety for kids is a subject that I write about quite often. As my kids get older their exposure to the internet continues to grow. It is my job as a parent to teach them how to use the internet in a responsible manner. I recognize that I cannot block every unsavory aspect of the web but I can teach my kids what is ok and what is not. One day, my kids will need to make those decisions for themselves, when I am not there looking over their shoulder. Now is the time to guide the kids along the right path.
Today happens to be my site’s first birthday. It is no surprise that my very first parenting tip was about internet safety. I hope that you will take the time to celebrate this milestone with me and revisit that first post.
And here are twenty more things to consider.
20 Steps Towards Internet Safety for Kids
- Centrally locate your computer so you can see what sites your children are visiting.
- Make a list of acceptable sites and bookmark them. Teach your kids to use these bookmarks.
- Require your children to ask permission to visit sites that are not on the list.
- Periodically check your browser’s history of visited sites.
- Set your browser to block pop up windows.
- Teach your children not to click on ads or pop up ads.
- Teach your children not to download anything without permission.
- Talk to your children about how to identify a questionable site and what to do in that situation.
- Enable the Google Safe Search filter to aid with internet safety.
- If you allow instant messaging and chat, watch those interactions like a hawk.
- Keep a list of your children’s passwords to email accounts and websites and let them know that you may check in periodically.
- If you allow your children to interact on social websites like MySpace or Facebook, open your own account and add your kids as your friends and vice versa.
- Surf the net for your kids. Introduce your kids to websites that you approve of and that your kids might enjoy.
- Limit the time that your kids are allowed to spend on the computer.
- Only allow internet use during specified times when you know that you will be available to supervise.
- Get fun software for the computer. Instead of using the internet, kids can spend time creating projects or working with digital photographs, etc.
- Make sure your anti-virus software and firewall software is up to date.
- Monitor internet activity when friends are over.
- Talk to your child about using the internet responsibly when they are at a friends house and what they should do if the other child is not practicing good internet safety.
- Research and determine if parental internet safety software is needed in your family situation.










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Mike Reynolds | Mar 1, 2008 | Reply
Those are great tips. Thanks for putting these together in a concise list of 20 tips for online kids safety. Regarding Google SafeSearch, the settings are easily undone, so one option is to use or link to a page that has SafeSearch permanently set such as:
http://www.squirrelnet.com/search/Google_SafeSearch.asp
There’s also an iGoogle SafeSearch gadget for iGoogle users.
Neena | Mar 2, 2008 | Reply
Mike,
You are right, the SafeSearch is easily undone and your site provides a good fix.
Given my children’s ages they are more likely to come across an inappropriate site accidentally (by typing in a misspelled word etc.)so I use SafeSearch to filter the results.
I didn’t know that there was an iGoogle gadget - thanks for the info!
Aruni | Mar 3, 2008 | Reply
Great tips. Our kids are still young but I know they will soon discover sites outside of Playhouse Disney on the Internet.
TechMama | Mar 11, 2008 | Reply
This is a great list!
Santosh | Mar 25, 2008 | Reply
Hi Neena: I am looking at buying a notebook for Shalaka and this is a great list. Good tips and thanks
Santosh, Sreedevi, Shalaka and Nandu (who is sitting next to me now!!)
Neena | Mar 28, 2008 | Reply
Aruni and Techmama,
I am remiss by responding so late. Thank you for the compliments! And yes, Aruni, the time will come sooner than you can blink - so it is best to be prepared!
Neena | Mar 28, 2008 | Reply
Santosh,
I am so pleased that you stopped by my site and left a comment as well! Even when children are old enough to understand which sites are “good” and which are not - it is still important to know what is out there. They inevitably come across something accidentally and also natural curiosity comes into play. If you are aware of where the kids spend time online then you can counsel, advise, and generally be proactive.