Last spring I wrote about my thoughts on cell phones for kids from a parents perspective. At the time I was thinking about purchasing a cell phone for my son.

Over the summer, I did indeed join a family cell phone plan and get a cell phone for him. Now, 6 months later, I can look back and see if my perspective on cell phones for kids is the same.

The bottom line is favorable. I like knowing that my son has a cell phone and is reachable at all times. He is now in middle school and always carries the cell phone with him. He is responsible enough to take care of and keep the cell phone charged. He is also careful to turn the phone off during school hours according to school policy.

The entire cell phones for kids experience is not without it’s lessons though.

Data Plans and Cell Phones for Kids

Many cell phone carriers have web access, downloadable ringtones, music, videos, games, etc. Almost all of these extras carry a charge. Even if you subscribe to a data plan, the time you spend on the site and size of the transfer may be included but the actual download (for example, purchasing the ringtone) is not.

This potential for tons of hidden fees made me extremely nervous. Even if the kids know that they should not download anything it is not only tempting, but very easy to do accidentally. Suddenly that great family plan will be costing you thousands of dollars per month. What I found out is that you can call most carriers and they can block access to these services from your or your kids cell phones. Even if you think everything is blocked always ask the very general question “Is there any other service on this phone that can result in additional charges?” - “I want every service that can result in additional charges to be blocked because the phone is being used by a child.”

Texting and Cell Phones for Kids

I opted for the unlimited texting plan. I found that my son is big on texting - he texts me, our extended family, and his friends. He actually texts more than he talks. We would probably be ok with a plan that allows a ton of text messages but the unlimited plan did not cost that much more.

How Many Minutes on Plans for Cell Phones for Kids?

If you have a family plan - this may actually depend more on how much you use the phone. As I said before, my son texts more than he talks, so he uses very few minutes. I was able to downgrade our plan because I found that we were not using all of our allowed minutes - and if you have rollover minutes then you are even better off.

In the end cell phones for kids can be a good choice but you, as a parent, need to actively monitor your cell phone bill in order to get the most out of it. As your child grows, his cell phone usage will also change so what works today may not be the same tomorrow.

Cell Phones for Kids: Should your child have a cell phone?

The latest item on my fifth grader’s “need to have” list is a cell phone.

Many of his friends already have one. In the past I always felt that cell phones for kids was a luxury, but as he becomes more independent I can see that it is a necessity.

The main benefit of having cell phones for kids is knowing that you can reach your child and he can reach you at any time. As my son enters middle school he will be spending more time away from home (activities, spending time with friends, etc.) And, let’s face it, because of cell phones - pay phones are nowhere to be found.

Some secondary benefits of cell phones for kids are access to 911 should they need it and the GPS capability of some cell phones so that parents can keep tabs on where there children are.

Of course, with the pros come the cons. As with anything, there need to be ground rules. In addition to making and receiving calls, cell phones come with a large menu of other services from text messaging and cameras to music downloads and internet access. Naturally, these services are not free and if you don’t watch out - your cell phone bill could rival your mortgage payment.

Phone insurance should also be considered. Cell phones for kids are easily broken or lost.

An alternative to purchasing a full featured cell phone for kids is using a cell phone created especially for kids. These phones offer some parental controls ranging from limiting the phone numbers that calls can be made to and received from. But these phones can be difficult to program and are often not viewed as “cool” by middle schoolers, although they may be ideal for younger children. New cell phone companies, like Kajeet which was recently reviewed by washingtonpost.com, are cropping up to meet the needs of tweens and are offering more grown up type phones.

Clearly, this is an area that I must research further. I know that my cell carrier offers family cell phone plans that I can take advantage of. A cell phone could make an excellent fifth grade graduation gift.

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